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I’m striving to live intentionally, guided by compassion, love, and authenticity. As I do, I am increasingly experiencing more contentment, peach, joy, love, kindness, & generosity. Before we can give others our appreciation, compassion, love, kindness, we must first give these to ourselves. One cannot draw water from an empty well. Some guiding phrases I’ve used throughout the past several years include the following. Continue reading
I’d like to encourage readers by saying we all have struggles and strengths. We must realize that the things we have done or not done in life do not define us. All of us, now, as we are, have infinite value and are worthy of extravagant love and belonging. As human beings, and as citizens, we have personal power and choice. People who hold public office, & who serve in social agencies are our servants; they work for us. Many of us feel apathetic and powerless. Maybe someone told us that we are not good enough, or we don’t have a specific degree, or title.
As human beings, members of our human family, and as citizens, we do have a voice and personal power. We can all exercise our power by advocating with our state and local and federal elected officials. We can vote, and encourage others to vote. Please listen to encouraging Ted talk by a member of the Koretta Scott King foundation, Delores Huerta.
What would we experience if we consider treating ourselves compassionately instead of condemning judgment? What if we then related to one another with compassionate curiosity? I’m striving to live intentionally, guided by principles of compassion, love, and authenticity. As I do, I am increasingly experiencing more contentment, peace, joy, love, & generosity. Some guiding phrases I’ve used throughout the past several years include the following. “Savor this moment,” whatever it is because life is a collection of moments and this one will never come again. “Relate with compassionate curiosity,” be compassionate with myself and the person before me because we can’t know the stress another person is dealing with. “Love extravagantly,” both yourself and others because this alone can change our world. “Be authentic” by gently sharing my feelings and preferences with others.
The following quote struck me as true. “We judge in the areas that we feel most insecure or threatened in. Then we pick people who we think are doing worse in that area than us,” Brené Brown. When we go out today with our protective masks on, try relating to people we see without masks with compassionate curiosity instead of condemning them. We are all stressed and anxious about COVID-19. Many of us are struggling physically, financially and are losing loved ones. Let us try to love extravagantly, giving mercy when we receive offense.